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Tips on How to Make New Friends Through Instagram.

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Over the years I have loved using my Instagram account to find exotic locations and places I want to travel to, I love it when I find an account with incredible photos of places I could only dream of going with beautifully taken and edited photos but I also love it when I come across accounts of real people!

I like following people and accounts that I can really relate to, people who work full time and fit their travels in-between, people who tell a story of their life using Instagram a long with the ups and downs of travel and life, people who work overseas in a job I could never get but can now follow along and partly experience.

These are the people that I want to be friends with, and I’ve actually become friends with quite a few people through Instagram in real life.

In the last few years I’ve found that there’s a few people and accounts where I’ve started to feel like I know them yet I only know them from reading their blog and seeing photos on Instagram and I felt like it would be nice to actually meet up with these people with whom I have so much in common with and am generally interested in their lives.

In the early stages of the internet we were constantly warned about ‘Stranger Danger’ and not meeting up with people who you talk to online, however fast forward 10 years and there’s now a mass of app’s created solely for people to talk online and then to meet offline and it’s totally acceptable. I’ve never been interested in using the internet to go on dates (urgh to Tinder) so why not use it to make some friends instead?

Quick tips to making friends on Instagram and how to make internet friends on instagram:

  • Have the purest intention of wanting to connect and create a friendship in mind.
  • Be interactive, follow what they do, give their photo a like and a comment.
  • Make sure you know you have something in common, whether that be travel or music or work.
  • Know whether you would realistically be able to meet up with them, if you live on other sides of the world it probably isn’t going to happen sadly.
  • Send them a private message to connect, something light and friendly.
  • If you live in close proximity or in the same city, arrange or suggest a group day out or brunch or lunch and invite the people that you would like to meet that you already follow on Instragam. Group things can be less daunting or worrying.
  • People’s lives are busy and some people may not be up for making actual friendships via the internet so if they decline or ignore you, don’t worry too much.


The first person I met up with was Amy from A Nomadic Existence in November 2015, Amy arrived in Hoi An, Vietnam the day I was leaving so she rushed from the airport to meet me where we grabbed a coffee and a yummy pastry! Amy is from Australia and at this point had been on the road travelling full time for just a short time. We chatted places we were going, places we had been, the up and down sides to travel and had a great time. I love following her and her partners journey on their trip via Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook and their blog. They take the most amazing photos and share the reality of their trips which I really like and I feel so much more connected now I have actually met her in real life!


After Asia, I moved to London in February 2016 and I knew that this would be a great chance to meet people who I have been following who live in London and people especially, who really love living here and are always making the most of this  amazing city (these are my kinda people!)

First up i met with Brenna from This Battered Suitcase, I remember reading Brenna’s blog posts on South East Asia at the start of 2014 before my first big South East Asia trip when i didn’t even know travel blogging was a thing! She has been living in London for a few years now and I love seeing her photos. Brenna work’s full time alongside blogging (and writing a book!) and it was great to talk to someone who travels so much and goes away usually at least once a month yet manages to hold down a full time job because she enjoys it. She has so many stories and is a very busy lady and although I’ve always loved following her trips and London explorations i now feel more connected and inspired by what she’s is doing.


Sara from Big World Small Me is someone who I have also been following for ages! She’s from New Zealand but has been in London for 4 years. She’s a teacher so travels a lot on the school holidays and has seen soo much of Europe and what I love most is that she really embraces living in London, she’s always out seeing different parts of the city, going out for drinks and brunch, so of course when we met it had to be for brunch and she is one of the people who made me really excited about moving to London by showing me through her Social media just how much there is to do here!

Sara has just left the UK to start a year world trip to Africa, Asia, back to New Zealand and then onto South America so I cannot wait to follow along and catch up with her when she’s back. Make sure you’re following too!!


After saying we had to meet up many many times online I finally did meet Sam from Yoko Meshi. I remember seeing that Sam was in Vietnam last year and I was due to go there really soon so I loved getting excited by following her trip on Instagram. We met for brunch (do you see a pattern occurring??) over the May bank holiday, she had just been to Copenhagen and I was going soon so I was keen to hear about it. It was really good to talk about our trips, how to fit travel in between work, bloggers and vloggers that we both like and how we hate how bloggers who moan about the ‘downside’ to full time blogging (umm don’t do it then!).


Next I met Olivia from Liv on a Shoestring, I met her in  May and since then we’ve stayed in touch and met up quite a few times. Although we had been following each other on Instagram and Twitter we decided to meet after both joining a conversation on how we wanted to get a rainbow bagel from Brick Lane, this was the perfect activity for 2 Instagram addicts, we walked around East London talking non stop, Liv has been living in London for a few years and has done so many trips to Europe in that time. She’s just been given another 3 year visa so I’m sure we’ll have some trips together in the future!

how to make friends through instagram

Since first writing this post I’ve met many more people and friends from Instagram in London and when travelling who are now good friends and I’ve even hosted 3 meet ups in London for people who love travelling and or blogging, it was great to get everyone in a room together to chat and meet face to face!

The conclusion is, if you follow people on Social media who live in the same area as you or you’re travelling through some of your followers home Country or City then why not reach out to them by sending a message and seeing if they want to meet up for a coffee or brunch or ice cream or perhaps do a meet up with a few of you as you never know what friendships may blossom from it, we’re all following each other as we have a passion and interest in the same thing whether its travel or photography or food or fashion or just blogging in general so you can make instagram friends in real life.

The internet doesn’t just need to be for meeting guys or girls for dates, it can be used to make friends too! I hope this helps you work out how to make friends in instagram.

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  • Reply
    Vanessa Rivers
    September 5, 2016 at 10:38 pm

    Love this post Ellie! It was great meeting you at our We Are Travel Girls launch party! Hope to connect again soon! XO

  • Reply
    September 12, 2016 at 2:42 pm

    Thank you for including me with all of these cool bloggers, it was so great to meet you. I’m glad that you are choosing to stay in London as well as it’s a pretty special place. Maybe NZ another time? Keep up the brunching and hopefully some new places would have popped up by the time I get back for us to visit. xx

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    Monica Houghton
    April 25, 2017 at 6:49 pm

    Loved meeting you at the WATG launch event! I feel like our paths will cross again soon given our mutual love for travel πŸ™‚ Great blog!

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    June 8, 2017 at 8:42 am

    Nice one! It’s always fun meeting like minded people & sharing stories, experiences & tips! On another note, I’m throwing this out there that I think Liv must have won the lottery to get to all of those places she’s been!! πŸ˜‰

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    Marc Gale
    March 3, 2018 at 8:15 pm

    I must disagree with the friends that live on the other side of the world bit, as I have friends in the great USA and I’m from the UK. I talk to them everyday and maintain a healthy relationship. I hope to save enough money to go and visit them one day. Long distance shouldn’t get in the way of a real friendship.

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